Are We Friends Yet?
Everyone keeps asking,
“How do I make MORE friends?” “TRUE Friends?” “DEEPER Friends?”
That’s the wrong question.
The question you need to ask yourself: what even is a friend?
That one question changes everything.
The answer arrives June 16, 2026.
Get on the waitlist (and into the community) today.
Launch day reminder email + instant access to The Less Lonely Club community + a couple other surprises
So... What even IS a friend?
Try to define it. I’ll wait.
Is it someone who shows up at 2am? Okay… but what about the one you’d trust to pick up your kids from school but would never call when things fall apart? The one you’ve known for 20 years who’s somehow become a group-text acquaintance? The brand-new neighbor who you clicked with immediately?
Three examples in and your definition is probably already falling apart. Because “a friend” isn’t one thing. It never was.
And yet we’re all so focused on what’s MISSING that we miss what’s already there. The person who shows up for every parenting win. The one who texts you about the marathon training. The friend-of-a-friend who just… gets your career stuff. Individually? They might not look like “enough.” But collectively? they might already be giving you everything you need.
They were right there. We just didn’t have the words for what they could be.
The podcasts. The advice columns. The “10 ways to make more friends” listicles. All of it saying the same thing: MORE. More outreach. More effort. More putting yourself out there.
What if you didn’t need more?
What if you just needed a new way of seeing what’s already around you?
All formats drop June 16... Paperback, ebook, audio.
Grab yours the second it’s live!
You don’t have to wait until June 16.
01
Free Year of
The Less Lonely Club
Starts the moment you sign up. A community of people doing this work together. Real wins, real struggles, real support.
02
The Connection Reset
A 10-day private podcast that trains your eye to spot the connections already in your everyday life. Your mindset warm-up before the book lands.
03
First in line on June 16
I’ll email you the morning the book goes live (plus first access to a launch-only bonus for readers).
Hi. I'm Alex.
I know what it’s like to look around and feel like SOMETHING IS MISSING. You have people in your life… but you want MORE. And then immediately feel guilty about it. I already have good people. Why aren’t they enough?
Here’s what I’ve learned the hard way: we live in a world that tells you only certain connections count. The lifelong best friend. The person who knows everything about you. The one who shows up at 2am. If you don’t have THOSE PEOPLE… (well, I’ll let you fill in your own negative self talk).
In my lowest of lows, that’s the lie I had to question.
When I stopped waiting for connections to clear some invisible bar and started seeing what was actually already there? That’s when everything changed. Turns out nothing was missing. Just my perspective.
Now I get to watch people have that same realization every single day. And I promise you. It is WILD how much connection is already around you. Most people are so much further along than they think.
So... are we friends yet?
One email on launch day. Maybe one or two before (behind the scenes of the book, a sneak peek). No spam. Leave anytime.