Check all that apply

i don't know a single person that can't check at least one box.

Not many people are talking about this stuff... until now.

we're not cool.
we just show up.

small actions add up.

1. Do less

1. Do less

Raise your hand if you feel like you have to show up in all the ways for your people. NOPE. Not around here. We believe you should show up in the ways you show up best and let someone else do the other things. Check out our series "How to decide what not to do."

4. Small actions add up!
4. Small actions add up!

You made some space above. Now decide on a manageable goal -- One hangout a month? 15 mins to catch up on texts a day? One facetime a month? Pick a small goal. Very small. Probably just a singular one, so you can stay accountable to yourself. After you've done it multiple times in a row, you can add another small goal.

2. Is there a person or a group you procrastinate getting back to?
2. Is there a person or a group you procrastinate getting back to?

Let yourself off the hook. Seriously. You can press PAUSE. You can decide to give yourself a break and see if you wanna keep putting energy into that relationship or not.

5. Pick two people. SCHEDULE.
5. Pick two people. SCHEDULE.

Pick two people you want to see (not you feel like you should see. You want to connect with them). Schedule a time in your calendar to connect in whatever way works for you -- call, hang out in person, a walk, a workout class. a "thinking of you" text

3. Decide how you communicate best
3. Decide how you communicate best

Set some boundaries. Decide what works best for you -- Text, Facetime, In-Person, Phone Calls, DM -- whatever it is. Start communicating that. "Hey! I wanna chat, but texting is easier during the day." or "I love when you send me that video, but can we not then start talking in the DMs. I'll won't miss your message if it's in my texts."

6. Repeat
6. Repeat

Text, Facetime, In-Person, Phone Calls, DM -- whatever it is, do it.

start here

Lean in. I’ve got a secret for you

you are probably trying to doing too much.

So the first step is to take a couple things off your plate.

After that you’ll want to make one small goal for the month.

Just one.

small actions add up.

you want this

Everyone is unique and that includes how we like to connect with our people, share in our friendships and build a community.

The Community Audit is a workbook that will guide you through a deep dive into your current community+ how you like to show up. It will help you design a plan for how to act intentionally to cultivate the community you are dreaming of. 

Find your version of "feels good."

consider this

We set all sorts of goals — health, finance, career, family, romantic. 

It’s a well known fact accountability helps us achieve our goals. 

You want to make new friends or join a group or work on old friendships, but you are nervous? Maybe things don’t work out? 

Let's get a group together and make things happen!