community + Friendships that
look good
feel good.
sounds nice, but, how?
Artist @sheenakalsocreates

hi. I'm ALEX

Photo of Alex Alexander sitting holding a mug of coffee smiling with her hand on her chin with a plain pink background

i’m just a gal who cares a lot about community + friendship.


The short answer?

i didn’t have a healthy support system growing up, so i built one.

Out of friends.

i believe a healthy support system is the ultimate self-care.

     …”Cool, Alex. What does that actually mean?”
     …”What actions do I take to make that happen?”

That’s exactly what we talk about here. 

No fluffy quotes.
No statistics.

Just a lot of actionable conversation. 

That friend...
The one that says the things that everyone is thinking, but no one wants to say out loud.
that's me.

Every week I send out all the thoughts that feel a bit too personal to post on the interwebs permanently.

So... do you want to hear my thoughts?

Free Resources


The secret to better friendships?

Do Less.


Let's rethink friendship:

10 tips that will change your relationships


what makes relationships last?

Let's talk about roots.

The workbook

Your Community,
Your Way

You can impact your friendships more than you have been led to believe.

Overhaul your mindset + habits.
create the community you need.

This workbook is the foundation of everything I talk about.

Don’t want to wait for me to share this content on social media + blog posts? 

Want a one-stop-shop for everything you need to start being proactive towards building the friendships + community you long for? 

This is it.

This was supposed to be a 30 page workbook, but by the time I was finished I had 200 pages of discussion + reflection to share with you.

I guide you through the process of reflecting on where you are and determining what exactly you want to build for yourself. 

Gone are the days where you say “I should make a new friend” or “I am lonely.” 

From now on, you will know how to set yourself up for success — and not my version of success, or societies version of success — but your best version of community + friendship.  

Inside you'll find a fresh take on community + friendship with advice like "Do Less" and "Make it simpler. No, even simpler."

This guide will give you actionable ways to impact this area of your life. Similar to getting out of debt or starting a new business -- You need a fresh way of thinking + a game plan.

Both of which you'll find within the pages of this workbook.

Your Community, Your Way - The Workbook Cover on a drawn notebook

Find your version of "feels good"

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