“It’s hard to build connections” - It's actually not.
You just need to see and use what’s already there differently.
After interviewing hundreds of people about their connections, I discovered something surprising:
Most people already have the foundation for meaningful community right in front of them.
They just need to see and use these moments differently.
I get it.
Building the connections you need feels impossible.
“I’m too busy.”
“I’m too old for new friends.”
“Everyone already has their people.”
“I should just accept what I have.”
But here’s the truth: Everyone can build the support system they need, at any time. I know from personal experience. I built myself a family out of friends.
My work combines specific, actionable strategy with the encouragement you need to take action. Because small, consistent shifts create real change.
The best part? You don’t need to wait. You can start building from wherever you are. Let’s dive in.
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The connection you’re craving is already happening around you.
A 10-day audio guide that helps you recognize all the ways people are already reaching toward you (without adding another task to your to-do list).
THE BOOK
ARE WE FRIENDS YET?
Your foundation. The complete framework for how connection actually works.
THE PODCAST
FRIENDSHIP IRL
Real people sharing what’s actually working (and what isn’t) in their friendships.
THE COMMUNITY
THE LESS LONELY CLUB
A community of people doing this work together. Real wins, real struggles, real support.
THE BOOK
ARE WE FRIENDS YET?
The book that changes how you see connection.
“Are We Friends Yet?” shows you exactly how to build the support system you need – starting with what you already have. Be the first to get it.
THE PODCAST
FRIENDSHIP
IRL
Discover how real people are building community, one conversation at a time.
Building a village feels impossible until you hear the simple actions people are taking to build their own.
Ever feel like “just get out there and make friends” isn’t exactly helpful?
Go where? Say what? What happens after that first hangout?
We’ve got you covered. Each episode gives you specific strategies for real connection scenarios – from creative ways to meet people to handling awkward moments. Plus guidance on when to keep trying (and when to move on).
Every week, I sit down with real people who are actively building meaningful connections, plus occasional experts who help us understand the deeper “why” behind what works.
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THE COMMUNITY
The Less Lonely Club
Real people, real wins, real support as you build the connections you want.
This isn’t just a newsletter – it’s your support system for navigating friendship and connection.
Tuesdays: Anonymous stories from our community members that’ll make you think “Oh, I’m not the only one!” plus practical ideas for your own situations.
Fridays: Questions like “Do you and your friends talk about money?” and practical lists like “Ways to show up after someone loses a job” – with real answers from thousands of other community members figuring out this friendship thing.
Anytime: Live community chat where you can bring your actual connection questions and get support from me and thousands of others who really get it
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