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You're living on the edge and you don't even realize it.
Triple-checking that everything’s perfect because there’s no backup plan if even one small detail goes awry. Declining help because you don’t have capacity to reciprocate. Lying awake, wondering who would actually show up if something happened to you.
Most people think this is a reality of “adulting” – feeling supported and connected is something you either have or you don’t. That building real community requires complete personality overhauls or moving to new cities.
The connections you need are already around you. You just don’t know how to see them yet.
This book reveals the exact frameworks that transformed my life from lonely and overwhelmed to deeply supported – the same process thousands of people have used to build the villages they always dreamed of.
Ready to stop doing life alone?
If you're wondering
WHO IS THIS BOOK FOR?
Since I’ve lived this transformation and guided thousands of others through it, I can say this QUITE CONFIDENTLY:
THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU.
If you’re tired of doing everything yourself because you don’t have anyone to call, this book is for you.
If you lie awake wondering who would actually show up if something happened to you, this book is for you.
If you decline invitations because you can’t reciprocate or don’t want to be a burden, this book is for you.
If you’re exhausted from triple-checking everything because there’s no backup plan, this book is for you.
If you want to stop feeling guilty for wanting more support than you currently have, this book is for you.
If you think building community requires a complete personality overhaul or moving somewhere new, this book is for you.
If you’re ready to transform casual acquaintances into real support without the awkwardness, this book is for you.
If you want to stop accepting “good enough” connections and build the village you actually need, this book is for you.
If you’re seeking a practical roadmap from someone who built their support system from nothing, this book is for you.
To put it simply, this book is for anyone ready to stop doing life alone.
Ask yourself this: do you really have the support you need… or are you just making do?
If you’re ready to transform your daily stress into daily support, it’s time to face the questions you’ve been avoiding.
Are We Friends Yet?
IS FOR YOU.
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From identifying who’s already in your corner to confidently asking for help when you need it, these resources bridge the gap between wanting better relationships and actually having them – because transformation happens in the doing, not just the knowing.
Beyond the Book:
The Connector's Toolkit
Ready to go beyond the book? Get the complete support system that bridges the gap between “I want better connections” and “I’m actually building them.”
The Complete Workbook – All the book’s reflection exercises formatted with space to write, plus bonus exercises like my “Do Less List” and deep dives into concepts we couldn’t fully explore in the book
10 Personal Pep Talks – Your confidence coach in your pocket for every tricky friendship situation. “Reconnecting with an old friend,” “Asking for help,” “Joining a new group” – I’ve got you covered with 5-minute confidence boosters.
10-Day Connection Reset – Notice the connection opportunities already around you without adding another task to your to-do list.
Private Community Access – Join thousands of people implementing these ideas, crowdsourcing solutions, and cheering each other on in real friendship wins.
Live Book Deep Dives – Monthly conversations with me where we dig deeper into the frameworks and troubleshoot real situations together.
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…So You Can Stop Living on Edge and Start Feeling Truly Supported
In these pages, you will find all the frameworks and reflection tools necessary to transform your connections (even if you’re starting from scratch!), including:
The Wheel of Connection Framework – Map your entire support system across 7 categories (from family of origin to chosen family) so you can see exactly what you have and where you need more support
The Roots of Friendship Framework – Learn the 3 connection points that hold every friendship together, plus how to intentionally build and strengthen these roots so your relationships feel stable and lasting
Your “You Are Here” Reality Check – A complete audit of your current connections, time, boundaries, and habits to identify what’s working and what’s draining your energy
The 4 Types of Friends Breakdown – Understand exactly what role each person plays in your support system and stop expecting the wrong things from the wrong people
Strategic Relationship Building – How to deepen existing connections and identify which casual acquaintances could become real support (without the awkwardness)
The Art of Letting Go – When and how to release relationships that no longer serve you, plus scripts for difficult conversations
Chosen Family Conversations – How to have the “let’s be each other’s people” conversation with friends who could become your emergency contacts
Your 3-Month Action Plan – Turn all your insights into 1-3 sustainable actions you can repeat consistently to see real change in your support system (plus a bonus check-in process to keep building)
On the surface, this is a book about building friendships...
... But here's what it's really about:
Stopping the constant worry about who would actually show up for you ⇐ and finally having the answer you’ve always wanted.
Building a support system where you never have to do everything yourself – from grabbing your mail to handling life’s emergencies.
Taking control of your daily stress and never wondering “who can I even call?” again.
Putting connection before perfection and taking steps – no matter how small – towards the village you’ve always dreamed of.
Calling it quits on a society that tells you to accept whatever support you get and creating the community that actually lifts YOU up
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Hi. I'm Alex.
Look, I get it. Building the support system you actually need feels IMPOSSIBLE sometimes. Trust me, I’ve heard every excuse in the book (and used most of them myself).
But here’s the thing… after completely transforming my own life from lonely and overwhelmed to deeply supported, I discovered something that changed everything: we all have WAY more connection opportunities than we realize. We just need to see these everyday moments differently.
That’s why I wrote Are We Friends Yet? This isn’t another “put yourself out there” friendship guide. This is the exact step-by-step process I used to go from crying myself to sleep at night, to having a village that shows up for everything from emergencies to grabbing my mail to celebrating my book launch and a million things in between.
No perfect circumstances required. No magical extrovert powers needed. Just the frameworks and reflection tools that help you build your support system using what’s already around you.
Psst… there’s way more where this came from
THE BOOK
ARE WE FRIENDS YET?
Your foundation. The complete framework for how connection actually works.
THE PODCAST
FRIENDSHIP IRL
Real people sharing what’s actually working (and what isn’t) in their friendships.
THE COMMUNITY
THE LESS LONELY CLUB
A community of people doing this work together. Real wins, real struggles, real support.